Marriage is a partnership. If you want your marriage to be successful, you’ll need to put your heart and soul into your relationship.
It is imperative in any long-term relationship to speak kindly to your partner. You also must be willing to listen with an open mind to your partners concerns. When you are speaking, talk in a clear and concise voice so your partner can understand what you are trying to convey.
Do not talk in circles or try to confuse your partner. In order for someone to understand what you are trying to say, it is very important that you only put across exactly what you want to say.
If you speak clearly, it will make it easier for the other person to understand exactly what you mean. Do not leave yourself open to be misunderstood. To start a conversation with your significant other be sure they are listening. Sit in a comfortable position facing each other and look in each other’s eyes.
You are now ready to start your conversation. Look your partner in the eye and tell them exactly what you want to say. If they are looking you back in the eye, they are most likely listening to what you are saying. Ask them to repeat back to you what you just said and what it means to them. This is an effective way to find out if they are understanding what you are trying to say.
Make sure that you are listening to them when they repeat what you just said. Once you are sure they understood you right, go on with the rest of what you wanted to say to them. Be sure to have them repeat everything back to you.
Listening is actually not a very simple skill. You will need to practice with an open mind. You cannot just listen, you must also try to hear and understand what your partner is trying to convey. Since everyone communicates differently, this can be very difficult at times.
When you are listening to the other person, do not be trying to think about what you are going to say next. Listen with your full attention. They deserve that from you, and you deserve the same when you are talking.
Practice speaking and listening with your partner. Set aside time every week to talk and listen to each other. Take turns, you can speak while your partner listens and then give them a chance to say what they want to say. Be sure to give them your full attention and they will return the same courtesy to you.
As long as you keep these simple tips in mind when having a conversation, you will be amazed at how much better you will understand each other and improve your relationship.