Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We may become too dependent on our girl for happiness. So if one day we get dumped, we find we’ve all of a sudden lost our confidence. This results in being without relationships for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend again, and… the cycle repeats.
So to break this cycle, we need to learn to remain the attractive guy. It’s crucial to keep that proper mindset that says, “I am the one who needs to be chased.”
Do luxury car dealerships beg people to like them? Of course not. Instead they allow all the buyers to come to them. As a man, you should have a similar confident mindset if you want to maximize the attraction your girlfriend feels for you. First and foremost, avoid chasing your girlfriend like a puppy. A basic concept which will prevent her from ever treating you badly is what I call Punishment and Reward.
If a woman engages in behavior which you dislike, punish her by withdrawing your time and focusing on something (or someone) else. If she does something you like, reward her by giving her more of your time, talking about her feelings, etc.
You need to be confident and you must know your strengths and weaknesses. Being a confident man an lover will make you exceptional attractive to your girlfriend.