Watch What You Say: Three Things to Avoid Saying On a Date

There are certain things you'd better not say on a dateIt’s no secret that men and women are often very different when it comes to how they interpret verbal and physical cues. In many ways, we’re simply wired differently. This is one reason why the first few dates are always a little nerve-wracking. It’s easy for both the man and woman to say the wrong things or send the wrong signals.

There are a few ways to make that first date a little less nerve-wracking, however. Here are three things a woman should avoid saying on the first couple of dates:

1. “It’s up to you.”/”I don’t care.”

Even if you’re naturally easygoing and don’t feel the need to make every decision, be careful about saying lines like “I don’t care what we do” or “You decide” too often. Men sometimes take such lines as signals meaning that their date is distracted or bored. Be decisive about helping him call the shots on a date and he’ll likely appreciate the help.

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Are Men in Glasses More Attractive?

Wearing glasses? Is this making you more attractive?Can it be that women really think that guys in glasses are hot?

A recent study about female attraction to males revealed that hormonal changes in a woman’s body make her more attracted to certain types of men at different times during her monthly cycle. Things such as body shape, the symmetry of the body and face, body smell, body posture and the way a guy moves, all have an influence on attractiveness.

A study by scientist Dr. Jeremy Nicholson appearing in the magazine Psychology Today sought to uncover what physical characteristics were attractive to the opposite sex. They were stunned to discover that most of these qualities were things that men could change such as: good grooming, neatness, nice clothes, posture and a healthy weight. We can glean from this, that you don’t need to worry about endlessly pumping iron at the gym or going onto a strict diet to get the perfect male physique. It turns out that simply keeping your nails and hair clean, your weight under control and dressing stylishly, could land you a nice girl.

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Online Dating: Doing Something More Exciting Than Talking About The Weather

Why talking about weather when you can do something way more exciting?Meeting prospective partners online is simple enough. Chatting with them for the first couple times is also fairly straightforward. But what comes next? If you’re not ready to meet them in person yet or unable to, how do you keep the growing friendship/relationship exciting while still in that crucial ‘getting to know each other’ phase? It’s easy to ask them in person to see a movie or concert, but what can you do when you’re stuck online and actually want to do something?

With a bit of creativity and knowledge of the person you’re chatting with, it’s actually quite possible to think of a whole lot of things to do online. Chatting in real time via instant messaging services or even video chat is one great option that lets you share a closer and non-delayed bond. Another option is to share in an enjoyable activity online.

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Are You Talking Too Much?

Couple on a dateYesterday I was thinking about how important it is to get to know someone before meeting in person, and suddenly it struck me. You might find disagreement with this sentiment, but communicating too much can actually do you a bad service.

Why?

Because you re unable to replicate the way you respond to someone in person. Because so much of what attracts us to another person happens on a subconscious, lizard brain level. You have no control over it, and you just need to meet in person before you can know if you’ve found the right one. Yes, it’s one great failure of online dating. And that’s why it makes little sense to spends weeks or even months communicating via text, email, or even webcam.

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Your Personal Free Psychic Reading


Do you feel like you’ve exhausted every possible avenue for finding the Great Love of your life? It might be time to try something you’ve never considered, like a psychic reading.

It’s fair to be skeptical, but a good psychic can see parts of you that you keep locked away. The parts that are preventing you from finding the true happiness you seek. Get your free reading and you might discover that the man or woman you’re meant to marry is already in your life or discover where you’ll meet them. Perhaps there’s something blocking you and keeping you from truly committing to the relationship that will make you happy forever? The psychic will uncover it for you and put you on the road to healing.

If nothing else has worked you should definitely try something new. Most important, it’s free so there’s no harm in trying. You never know, it might be the best decision you’ve ever made. Get it now!

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Searching For a Soulmate? Don’t Neglect Online Forums!

Find a date at online forumsWithout any doubt, online dating sites are the easiest and most popular way of meeting someone via the internet. However, there are also other ways of connecting with your potential soulmates online, and one of these great source of connection are online forums.

There’s a discussion forum online for just about every topic, giving you an easy way to connect with like-minded people. Pick something you’re deeply interested in, be it a hobby, your favorite sport, your favorite travel destination, etc, and find a busy forum where lots of members chat.

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Have a Great Time on Cheap Dates

You can have a great time even on cheap datesMoney does tend to make life a little easier, but it’s not a necessity to have a great date. For little to no cash outlay you can plan and execute something amazing by taking advantage of the world around you. Going cheap often requires more effort in research and planning, but you’ll find that doing the work ends up impressing your partner more than spending money would, leading to a far better experience for the both of you.

Use the Natural Beauty Around You

No matter where you live there’s bound to be accessible natural beauty. This can be as simple as a lake or the ocean, or as wondrous as a gorgeous mountain. Grab a blanket, pack some food, and find a spot with a view and you have an insanely cheap date that can be as romantic as anything else available to you. Make sure your spot is quiet so you have alone time with your date and you’ll connect beautifully. When planning dates in beautiful spots make sure that you try something new as often as possible. Once you’ve been to the same spot a few times it will lose its magic.

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Simple Tips for First Date Success in Online Dating

What to do on a first date?In the world of online dating, the first date should be treated differently than real world dating. There’s a limit to the level of connection you can make across emails, texts, and phone calls, and it’s only when you’re in person that you can tell if you have actual chemistry with someone. With that in mind, here are tips for how to approach a first date in the online dating world.

Schedule the First Date Quickly

There’s a great temptation in online dating to spend months getting to know someone via electronic communications before you meet. It seems logical, but the only way to discover if you have chemistry with a potential mate is to meet them in person. Chatting online will make you a friend, but if you’re searching for a long term relationship then you should get to the first date as quickly as you feel comfortable.

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Mature Dating UK – Find Your English Love

There’s no age limit on when you can find the love of your life, but there’s no question it feels more difficult the older you get. It can feel like all the good partners are taken and the ones available are carrying so much baggage as to make a relationship impossible. It is possible though, and Mature Dating UK is an excellent resource for finding the love you’ve always craved.

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Four Crucial Red Flags to Watch Out For Online

Red flags in online relationshipsGetting to know a potential partner on an online dating site is risky business. There’s so much both parties need to learn about each other. Establishing trust is more important than ever in a world where not everyone is who they seem.

To help protect ourselves, we need to be aware of what red flags are out there and how we can use them to avoid a potentially disastrous relationship. Here are four crucial red flags you should be aware of when getting to know a man online:

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