Knowing the best way on how to make small talk with a girl is not as tough as it sounds. Just follow the tips below and you will be a pro in no time. Just remember, that talking about the weather is not being a pro, unless she is a meteorologist.
So here is a scenario for you. You are at the doctor’s office in the waiting room and you make eye contact with a girl across the room. She has shiny blond hair, bright green eyes and a beautiful smile. You want to go talk to her but you feel like you are going to start sweating, you feel like your heart is racing 90 miles an hour and your stomach begins to churn.
The first thing you need to do is take a deep breath and relax. Making small talk is something almost anyone can do with the right approach. So what would you do in the above situation?
Well the first thing you need to do is look around and observe your surroundings. Look for something to talk about. You may think it is tough to do at the doctor’s office but if you are observant enough, you can easily make small talk. No you don’t want to walk up to her and say something weird like, “Hi, are you sick?” Well she is at the doctors’ office. Is she reading a magazine? Is it a celebrity gossip magazine? Women love celebrity gossip so you may be able to go up to her and say something like, “So what do you think about what Paris Hilton did?” Women love gossip so be prepared for an earful. Be sure that you know what you are talking about. If you are going to ask her about Paris Hilton, be sure that you know what Paris did or you will look like a total idiot.
Girls absolutely love it when guys listen to them. No I am not talking about pretending to listen. I am talking about really listening to her. Small talk isn’t about you talking and her not getting a word in edge wise. The most important thing to remember is that even though you want to make small talk with a girl doesn’t mean she will want to make small talk with you. Don’t talk it personally. She may be married or have a boyfriend. She may be just having a bad day. You don’t know what is going on in her life.
A great topic for small talk is to talk about your interests. You may find that you both have something in common. Talk about where you both work or go to school. Don’t forget the most important thing that you two can talk about and that is what lead you two to be at the same place, wherever that may be.
Small talk means more than just yes or no questions. You should ask her questions that require more than a yes or no answer. The more you can get her to talk, the longer your conversations will last.
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