Our reader Samuel left this comment to one of our earlier posts, and it definitely needs to be seen by more people.

What can really hurt you in your pursuit of single women is trying too hard. This can really scare women away when you try too hard, since You tend to come across as desperate, overly anxious to get involved with someone, appear depressed, etc. You will do much better when you feel relaxed and self-confident when meeting girls.

It’s best not to become overly obsessed in finding someone to love. This mentality may also result is you losing interest in other important areas of your life, such as hobbies, friends etc. You may become reclusive, depressed, give up your recreational activities, etc. Instead You need to live a life filled with lots of social activities and not spend all your time getting depressed because you don’t have someone special in your life.

Be patient and before you know it, you can meet the love of your life.