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Watch What You Say: Three Things to Avoid Saying On a Date

There are certain things you'd better not say on a dateIt’s no secret that men and women are often very different when it comes to how they interpret verbal and physical cues. In many ways, we’re simply wired differently. This is one reason why the first few dates are always a little nerve-wracking. It’s easy for both the man and woman to say the wrong things or send the wrong signals.

There are a few ways to make that first date a little less nerve-wracking, however. Here are three things a woman should avoid saying on the first couple of dates:

1. “It’s up to you.”/”I don’t care.”

Even if you’re naturally easygoing and don’t feel the need to make every decision, be careful about saying lines like “I don’t care what we do” or “You decide” too often. Men sometimes take such lines as signals meaning that their date is distracted or bored. Be decisive about helping him call the shots on a date and he’ll likely appreciate the help.

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Are Men in Glasses More Attractive?

Wearing glasses? Is this making you more attractive?Can it be that women really think that guys in glasses are hot?

A recent study about female attraction to males revealed that hormonal changes in a woman’s body make her more attracted to certain types of men at different times during her monthly cycle. Things such as body shape, the symmetry of the body and face, body smell, body posture and the way a guy moves, all have an influence on attractiveness.

A study by scientist Dr. Jeremy Nicholson appearing in the magazine Psychology Today sought to uncover what physical characteristics were attractive to the opposite sex. They were stunned to discover that most of these qualities were things that men could change such as: good grooming, neatness, nice clothes, posture and a healthy weight. We can glean from this, that you don’t need to worry about endlessly pumping iron at the gym or going onto a strict diet to get the perfect male physique. It turns out that simply keeping your nails and hair clean, your weight under control and dressing stylishly, could land you a nice girl.

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Online Dating: Doing Something More Exciting Than Talking About The Weather

Why talking about weather when you can do something way more exciting?Meeting prospective partners online is simple enough. Chatting with them for the first couple times is also fairly straightforward. But what comes next? If you’re not ready to meet them in person yet or unable to, how do you keep the growing friendship/relationship exciting while still in that crucial ‘getting to know each other’ phase? It’s easy to ask them in person to see a movie or concert, but what can you do when you’re stuck online and actually want to do something?

With a bit of creativity and knowledge of the person you’re chatting with, it’s actually quite possible to think of a whole lot of things to do online. Chatting in real time via instant messaging services or even video chat is one great option that lets you share a closer and non-delayed bond. Another option is to share in an enjoyable activity online.

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Are You Talking Too Much?

Couple on a dateYesterday I was thinking about how important it is to get to know someone before meeting in person, and suddenly it struck me. You might find disagreement with this sentiment, but communicating too much can actually do you a bad service.

Why?

Because you re unable to replicate the way you respond to someone in person. Because so much of what attracts us to another person happens on a subconscious, lizard brain level. You have no control over it, and you just need to meet in person before you can know if you’ve found the right one. Yes, it’s one great failure of online dating. And that’s why it makes little sense to spends weeks or even months communicating via text, email, or even webcam.

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Searching For a Soulmate? Don’t Neglect Online Forums!

Find a date at online forumsWithout any doubt, online dating sites are the easiest and most popular way of meeting someone via the internet. However, there are also other ways of connecting with your potential soulmates online, and one of these great source of connection are online forums.

There’s a discussion forum online for just about every topic, giving you an easy way to connect with like-minded people. Pick something you’re deeply interested in, be it a hobby, your favorite sport, your favorite travel destination, etc, and find a busy forum where lots of members chat.

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Have a Great Time on Cheap Dates

You can have a great time even on cheap datesMoney does tend to make life a little easier, but it’s not a necessity to have a great date. For little to no cash outlay you can plan and execute something amazing by taking advantage of the world around you. Going cheap often requires more effort in research and planning, but you’ll find that doing the work ends up impressing your partner more than spending money would, leading to a far better experience for the both of you.

Use the Natural Beauty Around You

No matter where you live there’s bound to be accessible natural beauty. This can be as simple as a lake or the ocean, or as wondrous as a gorgeous mountain. Grab a blanket, pack some food, and find a spot with a view and you have an insanely cheap date that can be as romantic as anything else available to you. Make sure your spot is quiet so you have alone time with your date and you’ll connect beautifully. When planning dates in beautiful spots make sure that you try something new as often as possible. Once you’ve been to the same spot a few times it will lose its magic.

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Simple Tips for First Date Success in Online Dating

What to do on a first date?In the world of online dating, the first date should be treated differently than real world dating. There’s a limit to the level of connection you can make across emails, texts, and phone calls, and it’s only when you’re in person that you can tell if you have actual chemistry with someone. With that in mind, here are tips for how to approach a first date in the online dating world.

Schedule the First Date Quickly

There’s a great temptation in online dating to spend months getting to know someone via electronic communications before you meet. It seems logical, but the only way to discover if you have chemistry with a potential mate is to meet them in person. Chatting online will make you a friend, but if you’re searching for a long term relationship then you should get to the first date as quickly as you feel comfortable.

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Four Crucial Red Flags to Watch Out For Online

Red flags in online relationshipsGetting to know a potential partner on an online dating site is risky business. There’s so much both parties need to learn about each other. Establishing trust is more important than ever in a world where not everyone is who they seem.

To help protect ourselves, we need to be aware of what red flags are out there and how we can use them to avoid a potentially disastrous relationship. Here are four crucial red flags you should be aware of when getting to know a man online:

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How to create a better profile at online dating sites

Online DatingHow desperate have you found yourself in wanting to go out on a date? For some of us, we can find a date last minute. For others it is a constant struggle that can be really depressing. If you have been going out and trying to meet a potential lover, you have been doing it all wrong. By now, you have heard the major buzz in online dating. For one reason or another you have not jumped it. Today, that is going to change!

You are going to set up a dating profile at one of our recommended dating sites, and we are going to show you how to get massive exposure. These are the tips that will guarantee your inbox always being full of potential dates.

Are you ready for a brand new love life? Let’s get started!

Here are three of the most important aspects of creating an online profile at any dating site. We have found that using these tips will not only help you connect with more prospects, but, most important, with ones who are really interested in getting to know you!

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Dating An Older Man – What You Need To Know

Would you date an older man?Are you curious how it’s like dating an older man? It can be quite a world of difference, especially if you’re used to going out with men having practically the same age as you. “Older” does not only mean that the guy is a couple of years ahead of you. Usually, it connotes at least five years, even more.

Most women start out with dating guys their age. It is easier to find things in common, and to do things together, because of the shared interests. Later on, however, women start looking for more maturity and stability, especially as they near the age when they begin thinking of having their own families. No longer is it just all about the fun and the romance anymore. The desire for a more rational and practical relationship takes shape as well, and this, they believe can be found with somebody older.

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