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Marriage Proposal Fails and How to Avoid Them

Man proposing to a girlfriendAs a marriage proposal planner at The Heart Bandits, I have helped tons of guys with proposal advice, ideas, and planning. There’s nothing like being at an actual proposal and seeing a couple take the next step in their relationship. There are tears flowing (not from me of course), smiles everywhere, and just a lot of emotion involved that you can’t help but be happy for the couple. It’s nice to know that they have a special story to tell because their proposal was pretty awesome.

One troubling trend that I’ve noticed recently though has been some pretty bad marriage proposal fails that have appeared on social media in the last few years. These fails have either been displayed publicly when the girl has actually declined the proposal, or the proposal itself has been pretty bad. For this reason, I want to give guys out there some advice on what to avoid when planning your marriage proposal.

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Top 5 Gifts Men Should NOT Buy Their Girlfriend for Christmas

Believe me guys… This little guide might help you get your relationship past Christmas avoiding any discussions on ‘Is that how much you love me? You bought me the cheapest perfume from the drug store at the corner? SERIOUSLY?’

A bad Xmas present

Don’t lie, this has surely happened to you at least once. Therefore, I have listed down couple of NO-GO Christmas presents for your girlfriend, as there are already tons of resources on ‘what to buy your girlfriend for Christmas… bla bla bla…

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How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

It can be really difficult to deal with the pain of a break up and maintain a cool head when it feels like your relationship is falling apart. Despite this panic mode that ensues, when you feel like you want to do anything it takes to hold onto her, it’s crucial that you step back and do nothing at all.

This is known as the no contact rule. It’s helpful to implement it in order to give both of you much needed space. During this period of absence you should focus your attention on you in order to build the vital self confidence that is necessary to re attract your ex.

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How To Increase Your Chances for a Successful First Date

What exactly do I call a successful first date? This is different for different guys. Some consider it great if they can just kiss a girl, while others don’t settle for anything less than taking her to bed. The truth is sad. Having gone out with with literally thousands of women and gone to bed with hundreds over the past 25 yrs, I have learned that there’s nothing you can do to guarantee anything specific with any particular girl.

However, by doing a few simple things, you can dramatically increase your chances of having a successful date with a girl, whatever meaning you may put into that.

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How to be a Challenge for Girls

There is the issue of being a challenge. Girls act sweet when you’re a challenge to them. They act bitchy when they take you for granted and no longer feel like they need to win your affections. Often by around month 6 in a relationship is when a woman really starts to take a guy for granted, so avoid that by remaining a challenge.

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How To Be An Attractive Guy For Your Girlfriend

Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We may become too dependent on our girl for happiness. So if one day we get dumped, we find we’ve all of a sudden lost our confidence. This results in being without relationships for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend again, and… the cycle repeats.

So to break this cycle, we need to learn to remain the attractive guy. It’s crucial to keep that proper mindset that says, “I am the one who needs to be chased.”

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